{"id":10298,"date":"2020-10-05T08:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-10-05T06:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=10298"},"modified":"2024-02-18T10:05:00","modified_gmt":"2024-02-18T08:05:00","slug":"den-gylne-regel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=10298","title":{"rendered":"Den gylne regel"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-medium\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/Brev_gyllen-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-59785\" srcset=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/Brev_gyllen-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/Brev_gyllen-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/Brev_gyllen.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 85vw, 300px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>Alt dere vil at andre skal gj\u00f8re mot dere, skal ogs\u00e5 dere gj\u00f8re mot dem. For dette er loven og profetene i en sum.<\/p>\n<cite>Den gylne regel, Matteus 7,12<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Noen ganger kan ting sies ufattelig enkelt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<p>Loven og profetene utgj\u00f8r hele gamle testamente. Oppsummeringen av hele det gamle testamente er at vi skal gj\u00f8re mot andre det vi vil at andre skal gj\u00f8re mot oss. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Det synes jeg er nydelig.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Hvordan fungerer den gylne regel i et forhold?<\/h6>\n\n\n\n<p>Det jeg trenger er ikke alltid det samme som min mann trenger. Han og jeg er forskjellige og har forskjellige behov.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For eksempel:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u00c5 snakke hverandres <a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=184\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"184\">kj\u00e6rlighetsspr\u00e5k<\/a> er utrolig viktig i v\u00e5rt forhold. Jeg trenger \u00e5 bruke tid med ham. Men han kan f\u00f8le seg kvalt uten alenetid. <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I senga har vi ogs\u00e5 forskjellige behov. Han har kanskje lyst til \u00e5 peise p\u00e5 mens jeg vil ha en roligere runde. <\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>L\u00f8sningen for oss er \u00e5 se situasjonen fra partneres side. Hva har hen behov for n\u00e5? Hva ville jeg \u00f8nsket av partneren dersom rollene var snudd? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Jeg vil at han skal snakke mitt <a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=184\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"184\">kj\u00e6rlighetsspr\u00e5k<\/a>. S\u00e5 da snakker jeg hans.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Jeg vil at han lytter n\u00e5r jeg forteller ham hva jeg \u00f8nsker i senga. S\u00e5 da lytter jeg p\u00e5 ham.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Riktignok er det ikke alltid vi f\u00e5r det til. Hverdagen kommer i veien og vi er ikke alltid like oppmerksomme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Men for oss er dette den gylne regel i praksis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);color:#8224e3\" class=\"has-inline-color\">\u2022 \u2022 \u2022 \u2022<\/mark> \ud83d\udc9c <mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);color:#8224e3\" class=\"has-inline-color\">\u2022 \u2022 \u2022 \u2022<\/mark><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Alt dere vil at andre skal gj\u00f8re mot dere, skal ogs\u00e5 dere gj\u00f8re mot dem. For dette er loven og profetene i en sum. Den gylne regel, Matteus 7,12 Noen ganger kan ting sies ufattelig enkelt.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":59785,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"yasr_overall_rating":0,"yasr_post_is_review":"","yasr_auto_insert_disabled":"","yasr_review_type":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[233,22,11],"tags":[54,32],"class_list":["post-10298","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ktisten_sex","category-kristne-og-bibelen","category-tanker","tag-5-kjaerlighetssprak","tag-bibel"],"yasr_visitor_votes":{"stars_attributes":{"read_only":false,"span_bottom":false},"number_of_votes":0,"sum_votes":0},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10298","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10298"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10298\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":59794,"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10298\/revisions\/59794"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/59785"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10298"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10298"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10298"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}