{"id":3821,"date":"2020-06-26T08:00:58","date_gmt":"2020-06-26T06:00:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=3821"},"modified":"2024-02-26T20:41:33","modified_gmt":"2024-02-26T18:41:33","slug":"om-a-gi-kontroll","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=3821","title":{"rendered":"Dominans: Om \u00e5 gi kontroll"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-medium\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/Hender-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-60083\" srcset=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/Hender-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/Hender-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/Hender.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 85vw, 300px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p><em>Noen ganger kan det v\u00e6re deilig \u00e5 gi sin kj\u00e6re kontrollen. Bare synke inn i nytelsen og f\u00f8le seg trygg og tatt vare p\u00e5.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Men \u00e5 gi fra seg kontroll, kan ogs\u00e5 v\u00e6re skummelt. Det krever tillit og trygghet. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<p>For noen kan det v\u00e6re ekstra krevende. S\u00e6rlig hvis man er vant til \u00e5 ha kontroll over seg selv og det man gj\u00f8r i hverdagen. Eller hvis man har opplevd store svik. Selv om man er trygg p\u00e5 sin kj\u00e6re, er det ikke alltid lett \u00e5 gi slipp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Et godt r\u00e5d: Ikke ta kontroll. Ta imot kontrollen<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Du kan kun ta imot i den takten din kj\u00e6re er trygg p\u00e5 \u00e5 gi deg kontroll. Begynn forsiktig. Kanskje et kyss eller en klem som varer litt lengre enn din kj\u00e6re hadde tenkt. Et overraskende stevnem\u00f8te. Bind for \u00f8ynene under litt av forspillet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Du \u00f8ker ogs\u00e5 sjansene for at din kj\u00e6re gir slipp p\u00e5 kontrollen hvis du viser at du er til \u00e5 stole p\u00e5 og i tillegg er oppmerksom p\u00e5 din kj\u00e6res behov. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vis at du er til \u00e5 stole p\u00e5 ved \u00e5 holde avtaler, ta ansvar og gj\u00f8re det du har lovet \u00e5 gj\u00f8re. Og v\u00e6r oppmerksom p\u00e5 din kj\u00e6res behov ved \u00e5 legge merke til om hen trenger en klem, litt \u00e5 drikke, s\u00f8vn eller avlastning. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Kj\u00e6rlighet handler ikke om \u00e5 ta kontroll, men om \u00e5 gi tillit.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-text-color\" style=\"color:#8224e3\">\u2022 \u2022 \u2022 \u2022 \u2022<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Les gjerne noen glimt om det \u00e5 <a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?cat=25\">gi kontroll<\/a> dersom du \u00f8nsker eksempler p\u00e5 hvordan det kan gj\u00f8res.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);color:#8224e3\" class=\"has-inline-color\">\u2022 \u2022 \u2022 \u2022<\/mark> \ud83d\udc9c <mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);color:#8224e3\" class=\"has-inline-color\">\u2022 \u2022 \u2022 \u2022<\/mark><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p> <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Noen ganger kan det v\u00e6re deilig \u00e5 gi sin kj\u00e6re kontrollen. Bare synke inn i nytelsen og f\u00f8le seg trygg og tatt vare p\u00e5. Men \u00e5 gi fra seg kontroll, kan ogs\u00e5 v\u00e6re skummelt. 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