{"id":42246,"date":"2023-11-11T08:00:00","date_gmt":"2023-11-11T06:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=42246"},"modified":"2024-01-19T09:28:15","modified_gmt":"2024-01-19T07:28:15","slug":"ikke-sammenlign-for-mye","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=42246","title":{"rendered":"Ikke sammenlign for mye"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"877\" src=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/5B44D2A7-2D32-4C38-A3E6-7655AEB48FF7-1024x877.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1930\" style=\"width:313px;height:268px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/5B44D2A7-2D32-4C38-A3E6-7655AEB48FF7-1024x877.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/5B44D2A7-2D32-4C38-A3E6-7655AEB48FF7-300x257.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/5B44D2A7-2D32-4C38-A3E6-7655AEB48FF7-768x658.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/5B44D2A7-2D32-4C38-A3E6-7655AEB48FF7-1536x1316.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/5B44D2A7-2D32-4C38-A3E6-7655AEB48FF7-1200x1028.jpeg 1200w, https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/5B44D2A7-2D32-4C38-A3E6-7655AEB48FF7.jpeg 1763w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 709px) 85vw, (max-width: 909px) 67vw, (max-width: 1362px) 62vw, 840px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p><em>Innlegget du n\u00e5 skal f\u00e5 lese, har en sv\u00e6rt viktig p\u00e5minnelse. Det er skrevet av en leser og lagt p\u00e5 et forum vi hadde her p\u00e5 fiolsex. Dessverre ble forumet oversv\u00f8mt av tusenvis av spam-innlegg og derfor slettet. Fordi jeg synes p\u00e5minnelsen er s\u00e5 viktig og innlegget virkelig r\u00f8rte meg, har jeg limt det inn her slik at flere kan f\u00e5 lese det.  <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-text-color\" style=\"color:#8224e3\">\u2022 \u2022 \u2022 \u2022 \u2022<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>N\u00e5r man er i et langvarig forhold, er det viktig \u00e5 fokusere p\u00e5 de riktige ting. Hvor viktig er egentlig et veldig aktivt sexliv, og hvordan defineres et aktivt sexliv?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jeg har n\u00e5 v\u00e6rt sammen med min kj\u00e6re i n\u00e6rmere 34 \u00e5r, hvorav 29 av dem som gift.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Til \u00e5 begynne med var vi jo nyforelsket og hadde hyppig sex, s\u00e5 ble vi gift ville ha barn og det aktive sexlivet fortsatte, en til to ganger pr uke. S\u00e5 for en 16-17 \u00e5r siden begynte hennes lyst \u00e5 dabbe av, hun ville ikke orket ikke og hadde ikke lyst rett og slett. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jeg ble frustrert, maste helt sikkert for mye, og var nok egentlig litt irritert. Leste meg opp p\u00e5 artikler der det virket som \u00aballe\u00bb andre par p\u00e5 v\u00e5r alder hadde sex minst en gang pr uke. Artikler der det sto at sex er limet i forholdet. Det medf\u00f8rte nok at jeg ble masete, og sur hver gang hun avviste mine fors\u00f8k p\u00e5 intimitet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jeg tenkte med meg selv at slik kan jeg ikke ha det resten av livet, s\u00e5 jeg m\u00e5 ut av dette forholdet. Jeg gikk s\u00e5 langt at jeg laget meg en profil p\u00e5 sukker.no, der de hadde match tabeller, s\u00e5 jo da at jeg matchet med flere damer p\u00e5 min alder, som ogs\u00e5 mente hyppig sex var viktig. Jeg bestemte meg for at i l\u00f8pet av et \u00e5rs tid skal vi v\u00e6re skilt (som sagt dette var 17- 18 \u00e5r siden \ud83d\ude09 )<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>S\u00e5 en dag begynte jeg heldigvis \u00e5 tenke litt. Jeg spurte meg selv, hvorfor valgte jeg egentlig henne, hvis jeg er s\u00e5 misforn\u00f8yd. Svaret til meg selv, ble jo ikke at jeg valgte henne p\u00e5 grunn av hyppig sex\u2026 Jeg valgte henne for s\u00e5 mye annet, som personlighet, humor, interesser og v\u00e6rem\u00e5te m.m. Det var jo ikke slik da jeg fridde at jeg ville gifte meg med henne fordi hun var aktiv i sengen\u2026.<br>Og disse andre egenskapene ja de hadde hun jo fortsatt, jeg var jo egentlig lykkelig, sett bort fra litt lite sex&#8230; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Der og da slo jeg fra meg tanke om skilsmisse, slettet profilen p\u00e5 sukker, og bestemte meg for \u00e5 gj\u00f8re fors\u00f8k p\u00e5 endringer. Det f\u00f8rte jo til at jeg slappet av, maste mindre, ga henne oppmerksomhet, s\u00e5 plutselig en dag, hadde hun lyst igjen. Br\u00e5tt hadde vi ukentlig sex og livet var herlig.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Men slikt varer ikke evig, hennes lyst ble borte og svingte veldig, men jeg sa til meg selv at jeg m\u00e5tte fors\u00f8ke \u00e5 leve med det. Jeg har l\u00e6rt meg til \u00e5 ikke mase, dersom hun sier hun ikke har lyst, ja s\u00e5 er det greit, men\u2026 kan hende jeg mimrer litt sammen med henne, s\u00e5nn \u00abhusker du den gangen da vi l\u00e5 i det teltet\u2026\u00bb S\u00e5 hender det rett som det er hun utbryter, n\u00e5r du snakker s\u00e5nn f\u00e5r jeg litt lyst likevel \ud83d\ude0a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hva er et aktivt sexliv, vel vi er i midten av 50 \u00e5rene begge to, hun er forbi overgangsalder, og hyppigheten varierer fra en sjelden gang en gang pr uke eller en gang annen hver uke til mer vanlig en gang i m\u00e5neden. Noen ganger kan det g\u00e5 b\u00e5de to og tre m\u00e5neder \u2026 <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Men er jeg ulykkelig for det?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nei, fordi vi har s\u00e5 mye annet fint sammen, er jeg faktisk lykkelig uten sex hver uke.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Konklusjonen p\u00e5 min tankerekke er \u00e5 ikke sammenligne seg med andre, ikke lese statistikker for \u00e5 finne ut om du er lykkelig eller ikke. Du vil alltid finne noen som har sex oftere enn deg selv, men det betyr ikke at ikke du er lykkelig i ditt forhold. Finn ut hva som er passe for dere to, snakk sammen, kommuniser, og ikke fokuser p\u00e5 det du mener mangler. Tenk kj\u00e6rlighetsspr\u00e5k, kan hende det finnes m\u00e5ter \u00e5 tenne den andre p\u00e5 litt oftere, om du bare kommuniserer p\u00e5 riktig vis \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-text-color\" style=\"color:#8224e3\">\u2022 \u2022 \u2022 \u2022 \u2022<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>PS: Innlegget er signert \u00abJ\u00bb og han kan selvsagt be meg fjerne innlegget n\u00e5r som helst. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nedenfor har jeg limt inn tilbakemeldingene som kom p\u00e5 innlegget. Du er selvsagt velkommen til \u00e5 dele dine erfaringer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-text-color\" style=\"color:#8224e3\">\u2022 \u2022 \u2022 \u2022 \u2022<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Gode gjesteinnlegg:<\/h2>\n\n\n\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-wrap wppsac-slick-slider-wrp wppsac-clearfix \" data-conf=\"{&quot;dots&quot;:&quot;false&quot;,&quot;arrows&quot;:&quot;true&quot;,&quot;autoplay&quot;:&quot;false&quot;,&quot;autoplay_interval&quot;:3000,&quot;speed&quot;:500,&quot;rtl&quot;:&quot;false&quot;,&quot;lazyload&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\">\r\n\t\t\t<div id=\"wppsac-post-slider-1\" class=\"wppsac-post-slider-init wppsac-post-slider design-4\">\r\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-slides\">\r\n\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list\">\r\n\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wp-medium-5 wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-image-bg\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=137534\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wppsac-post-image\"  src=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Skje.jpg\" alt=\"Om \u00e5 ligge i skje\" \/>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t<div class=\" wp-medium-7  wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"wppsac-post-title\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=137534\">Om \u00e5 ligge i skje<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-sub-content\">Har du lurt p\u00e5 hvordan n\u00e6rheten kan bevares og inspirere i et langt samliv? Innlegget du n\u00e5 skal f\u00e5 lese...<\/div>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"wppsac-readmorebtn\" href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=137534\">Les mer<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t<\/div>\r\n<\/div><div class=\"wppsac-post-slides\">\r\n\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list\">\r\n\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wp-medium-5 wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-image-bg\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=137153\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wppsac-post-image\"  src=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/5B44D2A7-2D32-4C38-A3E6-7655AEB48FF7.jpeg\" alt=\"N\u00e5r den andres nytelse blir din\u2026\" \/>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t<div class=\" wp-medium-7  wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"wppsac-post-title\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=137153\">N\u00e5r den andres nytelse blir din\u2026<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-sub-content\">Innlegget du n\u00e5 skal f\u00e5 lese, synes jeg har et flott poeng. Det ble skrevet av en leser og lagt...<\/div>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"wppsac-readmorebtn\" href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=137153\">Les mer<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t<\/div>\r\n<\/div><div class=\"wppsac-post-slides\">\r\n\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list\">\r\n\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wp-medium-5 wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-image-bg\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=136425\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wppsac-post-image\"  src=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/Hjerte_kom.jpg\" alt=\"Da jeg var utro\u2026\u2026\" \/>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t<div class=\" wp-medium-7  wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"wppsac-post-title\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=136425\">Da jeg var utro\u2026\u2026<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-sub-content\">Vi kan velge hvordan vi vil reagere. Innlegget du n\u00e5 skal f\u00e5 lese, forteller om en som valgte en kreativ...<\/div>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"wppsac-readmorebtn\" href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=136425\">Les mer<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t<\/div>\r\n<\/div><div class=\"wppsac-post-slides\">\r\n\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list\">\r\n\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wp-medium-5 wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-image-bg\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=136421\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wppsac-post-image\"  src=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Stovsuger.jpg\" alt=\"\u00abKlippekort p\u00e5 st\u00f8vsuging\u00bb\" \/>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t<div class=\" wp-medium-7  wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"wppsac-post-title\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=136421\">\u00abKlippekort p\u00e5 st\u00f8vsuging\u00bb<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-sub-content\">Innlegget du n\u00e5 skal f\u00e5 lese, inneholder et privat gavetips. Det ble skrevet av en leser og lagt p\u00e5 et...<\/div>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"wppsac-readmorebtn\" href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=136421\">Les mer<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t<\/div>\r\n<\/div><div class=\"wppsac-post-slides\">\r\n\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list\">\r\n\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wp-medium-5 wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-image-bg\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=136417\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wppsac-post-image\"  src=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/Kalender_dag.jpg\" alt=\"Spontanitet, avtaler og rutine sex\u2026\" \/>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t<div class=\" wp-medium-7  wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"wppsac-post-title\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=136417\">Spontanitet, avtaler og rutine sex\u2026<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-sub-content\">Innlegget du n\u00e5 skal f\u00e5 lese, tror jeg ber\u00f8rer noe flere opplever i langvarige forhold. Det ble skrevet av en...<\/div>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"wppsac-readmorebtn\" href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=136417\">Les mer<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t<\/div>\r\n<\/div><div class=\"wppsac-post-slides\">\r\n\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list\">\r\n\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wp-medium-5 wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-image-bg\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=136412\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wppsac-post-image\"  src=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/4FC65E87-5204-4770-A335-A8BC067B7B0C.jpeg\" alt=\"Romantiske filmer\" \/>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t<div class=\" wp-medium-7  wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"wppsac-post-title\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=136412\">Romantiske filmer<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-sub-content\">Har du en romantisk film du kan anbefale? Sp\u00f8rsm\u00e5let kom fra en leser og lagt p\u00e5 et forum som n\u00e5...<\/div>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"wppsac-readmorebtn\" href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=136412\">Les mer<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t<\/div>\r\n<\/div><div class=\"wppsac-post-slides\">\r\n\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list\">\r\n\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wp-medium-5 wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-image-bg\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=136408\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wppsac-post-image\"  src=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/Hand_spm.jpg\" alt=\"Bifil og kristen\" \/>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t<div class=\" wp-medium-7  wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"wppsac-post-title\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=136408\">Bifil og kristen<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-sub-content\">Innlegget du n\u00e5 skal f\u00e5 lese, stiller et kanskje vanskelig sp\u00f8rsm\u00e5l. Det ble skrevet av en leser og lagt p\u00e5...<\/div>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"wppsac-readmorebtn\" href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=136408\">Les mer<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t<\/div>\r\n<\/div><div class=\"wppsac-post-slides\">\r\n\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list\">\r\n\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wp-medium-5 wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-image-bg\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=136403\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wppsac-post-image\"  src=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/Blader_elsker.jpg\" alt=\"Elsker du meg?\" \/>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t<div class=\" wp-medium-7  wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"wppsac-post-title\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=136403\">Elsker du meg?<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-sub-content\">Innlegget du n\u00e5 skal f\u00e5 lese, peker p\u00e5 hvor viktig det er \u00e5 fortelle at man elsker sin kj\u00e6re. Det...<\/div>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"wppsac-readmorebtn\" href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=136403\">Les mer<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t<\/div>\r\n<\/div><div class=\"wppsac-post-slides\">\r\n\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list\">\r\n\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wp-medium-5 wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-image-bg\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=58797\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wppsac-post-image\"  src=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/5B44D2A7-2D32-4C38-A3E6-7655AEB48FF7.jpeg\" alt=\"En litt slem s\u00f8ndagsmorgen\u2026\" \/>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t<div class=\" wp-medium-7  wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"wppsac-post-title\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=58797\">En litt slem s\u00f8ndagsmorgen\u2026<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-sub-content\">Innlegget du n\u00e5 skal f\u00e5 lese, fikk meg til \u00e5 smile og ga meg noen frekke ideer. Det er skrevet...<\/div>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"wppsac-readmorebtn\" href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=58797\">Les mer<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t<\/div>\r\n<\/div><div class=\"wppsac-post-slides\">\r\n\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list\">\r\n\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wp-medium-5 wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-image-bg\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=58795\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wppsac-post-image\"  src=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Bryter.jpg\" alt=\"Ulike elskovsknapper\" \/>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t<div class=\" wp-medium-7  wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"wppsac-post-title\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=58795\">Ulike elskovsknapper<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-sub-content\">Glimtet du n\u00e5 skal f\u00e5 lese, fikk meg til \u00e5 smile. En leser forteller at hans frue har flere knapper,...<\/div>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"wppsac-readmorebtn\" href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=58795\">Les mer<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t<\/div>\r\n<\/div><div class=\"wppsac-post-slides\">\r\n\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list\">\r\n\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wp-medium-5 wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-image-bg\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=58793\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wppsac-post-image\"  src=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/4F60CE17-8797-41C8-81F2-75CB8904D8A4.jpeg\" alt=\"En s\u00f8ndagsmorgen\u2026\" \/>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t<div class=\" wp-medium-7  wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"wppsac-post-title\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=58793\">En s\u00f8ndagsmorgen\u2026<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-sub-content\">Det vakre glimtet du n\u00e5 skal f\u00e5 lese, er skrevet av en leser. Jeg synes det er s\u00e5 flott fordi...<\/div>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"wppsac-readmorebtn\" href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=58793\">Les mer<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t<\/div>\r\n<\/div><div class=\"wppsac-post-slides\">\r\n\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list\">\r\n\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wp-medium-5 wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-image-bg\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=42246\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wppsac-post-image\"  src=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/5B44D2A7-2D32-4C38-A3E6-7655AEB48FF7.jpeg\" alt=\"Ikke sammenlign for mye\" \/>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t<div class=\" wp-medium-7  wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"wppsac-post-title\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=42246\">Ikke sammenlign for mye<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-sub-content\">Innlegget du n\u00e5 skal f\u00e5 lese, har en sv\u00e6rt viktig p\u00e5minnelse. Det er skrevet av en leser og lagt p\u00e5...<\/div>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"wppsac-readmorebtn\" href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=42246\">Les mer<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t<\/div>\r\n<\/div><div class=\"wppsac-post-slides\">\r\n\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list\">\r\n\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wp-medium-5 wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-image-bg\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=42086\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wppsac-post-image\"  src=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/IMG_1258.jpeg\" alt=\"Snu deg til meg!\" \/>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t<div class=\" wp-medium-7  wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"wppsac-post-title\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=42086\">Snu deg til meg!<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-sub-content\">\u00abDet du&nbsp;gj\u00f8r&nbsp;i l\u00f8pet av et mikrosekund, avgj\u00f8r hvor relasjonene dine ender opp\u00bb sier forfatteren av boka. N\u00e5r vi er bevisst...<\/div>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"wppsac-readmorebtn\" href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=42086\">Les mer<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t<\/div>\r\n<\/div><div class=\"wppsac-post-slides\">\r\n\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list\">\r\n\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wp-medium-5 wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-image-bg\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=38447\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wppsac-post-image\"  src=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/Kjarlighetssprak_ord.jpg\" alt=\"Liker du likes?\" \/>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t<div class=\" wp-medium-7  wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"wppsac-post-title\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=38447\">Liker du likes?<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-sub-content\">Innlegget du n\u00e5 skal f\u00e5 lese, fikk meg til \u00e5 tenke. Det er skrevet av en leser og lagt p\u00e5...<\/div>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"wppsac-readmorebtn\" href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=38447\">Les mer<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t<\/div>\r\n<\/div><div class=\"wppsac-post-slides\">\r\n\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list\">\r\n\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wp-medium-5 wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-image-bg\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=38439\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wppsac-post-image\"  src=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/Vannglass_pille.jpg\" alt=\"Viagra &#8211; velsignelse eller forbannelse\" \/>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t<div class=\" wp-medium-7  wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"wppsac-post-title\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=38439\">Viagra &#8211; velsignelse eller forbannelse<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-sub-content\">Innlegget du n\u00e5 skal f\u00e5 lese, er en \u00e6rlig og godt beskrevet erfaring med Viagra. Det er skrevet av en...<\/div>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"wppsac-readmorebtn\" href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=38439\">Les mer<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t<\/div>\r\n<\/div><div class=\"wppsac-post-slides\">\r\n\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list\">\r\n\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wp-medium-5 wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-image-bg\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=10987\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wppsac-post-image\"  src=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/Krukke_lapper.jpg\" alt=\"Lappeleken\" \/>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t<div class=\" wp-medium-7  wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"wppsac-post-title\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=10987\">Lappeleken<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-sub-content\">Trenger dere inspirasjon til \u00e5 pr\u00f8ve noe nytt? Kanskje dere kan hente ideer fra dem som virkelig vet hva dere...<\/div>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"wppsac-readmorebtn\" href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=10987\">Les mer<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t<\/div>\r\n<\/div><div class=\"wppsac-post-slides\">\r\n\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list\">\r\n\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-list-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wp-medium-5 wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-image-bg\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=23072\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wppsac-post-image\"  src=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Hoytaler.jpg\" alt=\"Lydfil: Intim indre massasje\" \/>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t<div class=\" wp-medium-7  wpcolumns\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\r\n\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"wppsac-post-title\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=23072\">Lydfil: Intim indre massasje<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-post-content\">\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"wppsac-sub-content\">\u00c5 spille inn en lydfil som guider deg og minner p\u00e5 det du har tenkt \u00e5 gj\u00f8re, kan v\u00e6re lurt....<\/div>\r\n\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"wppsac-readmorebtn\" href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=23072\">Les mer<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t<\/div>\r\n<\/div>\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);color:#8224e3\" class=\"has-inline-color\">\u2022 \u2022 \u2022 \u2022<\/mark> \ud83d\udc9c <mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);color:#8224e3\" class=\"has-inline-color\">\u2022 \u2022 \u2022 \u2022<\/mark><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Innlegget du n\u00e5 skal f\u00e5 lese, har en sv\u00e6rt viktig p\u00e5minnelse. Det er skrevet av en leser og lagt p\u00e5 et forum vi hadde her p\u00e5 fiolsex. Dessverre ble forumet oversv\u00f8mt av tusenvis av spam-innlegg og derfor slettet. Fordi jeg synes p\u00e5minnelsen er s\u00e5 viktig og innlegget virkelig r\u00f8rte meg, har jeg limt det inn &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=23072\" class=\"more-link\">Fortsett \u00e5 lese<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> \u00abLydfil: Intim indre massasje\u00bb<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1930,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"yasr_overall_rating":0,"yasr_post_is_review":"","yasr_auto_insert_disabled":"","yasr_review_type":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[452,11],"tags":[148],"class_list":["post-42246","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-foruminnlegg","category-tanker","tag-sexlyst"],"yasr_visitor_votes":{"stars_attributes":{"read_only":false,"span_bottom":false},"number_of_votes":0,"sum_votes":0},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42246","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=42246"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42246\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":56366,"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42246\/revisions\/56366"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1930"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=42246"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=42246"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=42246"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}