{"id":502,"date":"2020-02-07T08:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-02-07T08:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=502"},"modified":"2024-09-10T13:34:32","modified_gmt":"2024-09-10T11:34:32","slug":"handkos-1-forutsetninger","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=502","title":{"rendered":"H\u00e5ndkos (1) &#8211; Forutsetninger"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"586\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/A5D4838B-B67A-4355-85AE-AB65D411FF66-586x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4689\" style=\"width:123px;height:214px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/A5D4838B-B67A-4355-85AE-AB65D411FF66-586x1024.jpeg 586w, https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/A5D4838B-B67A-4355-85AE-AB65D411FF66-172x300.jpeg 172w, https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/A5D4838B-B67A-4355-85AE-AB65D411FF66-86x150.jpeg 86w, https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/A5D4838B-B67A-4355-85AE-AB65D411FF66.jpeg 733w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 586px) 85vw, 586px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"has-dark-gray-color has-text-color\"><em>En kvinneh\u00e5nd som vet \u00e5 behandle mannens p\u00e5le, kan finne p\u00e5 mye g\u00f8y som styrker b\u00e5ndet mellom dem.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<div class=\"has-text-color has-dark-gray-color\"><em> Dette er f\u00f8rste innlegg i <strong><span style=\"color:#8224e3\" class=\"has-inline-color\"> H\u00e5ndkos-guiden<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/div>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=613\"><div class=\"min_medium_boks lilla\">Intro<\/div> <\/a> <div class=\"has-text-color has-dark-gray-color\"><em> Innledning<\/em><\/div>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=502\"><div class=\"min_medium_boks hvit\">Del 1<\/div> <\/a> <div class=\"has-text-color has-dark-gray-color\"><em> Forutsetninger<\/em><\/div>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=504\"><div class=\"min_medium_boks lilla\">Del 2<\/div> <\/a> <div class=\"has-text-color has-dark-gray-color\"><em> Oppbygging<\/em><\/div>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=517\"><div class=\"min_medium_boks lilla\">Del 3<\/div> <\/a> <div class=\"has-text-color has-dark-gray-color\"><em> Grunnleggende teknikk<\/em><\/div>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=566\"><div class=\"min_medium_boks lilla\">Del 4<\/div> <\/a> <div class=\"has-text-color has-dark-gray-color\"><em> Flere muligheter<\/em><\/div>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=578\"><div class=\"min_medium_boks lilla\">Del 5<\/div> <\/a> <div class=\"has-text-color has-dark-gray-color\"><em> N\u00e5r han kommer<\/em><\/div>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=615\"><div class=\"min_medium_boks lilla\">Del 6<\/div> <\/a> <div class=\"has-text-color has-dark-gray-color\"><em> Bounusidder<\/em><\/div>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-medium\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Halvsirkel_tiara-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-136802\" srcset=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Halvsirkel_tiara-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Halvsirkel_tiara-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Halvsirkel_tiara.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 85vw, 300px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Hvem er sjefen?<\/strong><\/h6>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-dark-gray-color has-text-color\">Han har betrodd henne det mest f\u00f8lsomme p\u00e5 hele kroppen sin. Hun har p\u00e5len og n\u00f8ttene hans i sine hender. Det er hun som har de sterkeste kortene og han som viser henne tillit. N\u00e5 er det opp til dronningen om hun vil la ham f\u00f8le seg som en konge.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-medium\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Halvsirkel_gave-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-136794\" srcset=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Halvsirkel_gave-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Halvsirkel_gave-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Halvsirkel_gave.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 85vw, 300px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Kos for begge<\/strong><\/h6>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-dark-gray-color has-text-color\">Alle former for sex <em>kan<\/em> handle om s\u00e5 mye mer enn teknikker. Selvsagt er det bedre n\u00e5r man har l\u00e6rt seg noen teknikker sammen, men sex er ogs\u00e5 tillit, lidenskap og kos. Det handler om \u00e5 gi uten n\u00f8dvendigvis \u00e5 f\u00e5 igjen fordi man gir i kj\u00e6rlighet og tar imot i kj\u00e6rlighet. F\u00f8rst da blir det virkelig godt p\u00e5 flere m\u00e5ter en rent fysisk.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-medium\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Halvsirkel_stopp-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-136816\" srcset=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Halvsirkel_stopp-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Halvsirkel_stopp-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Halvsirkel_stopp.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 85vw, 300px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Tvang er ikke tillatt<\/strong><\/h6>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-dark-gray-color has-text-color\">Verken fysisk eller psykisk tvang av noe slag er greit i et likestilt og sunt samliv. Hvis ikke begge er med p\u00e5 leken, si ifra og stopp med en gang. <\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-medium\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Halvsirkel_ore-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-136807\" srcset=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Halvsirkel_ore-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Halvsirkel_ore-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Halvsirkel_ore.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 85vw, 300px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>God kommunikasjon<\/strong><\/h6>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-dark-gray-color has-text-color\">Alle er forskjellige. \u00c9n teknikk passer ikke for alle. Finn ut hva han liker og hva hun liker. Ingen er tankelesere, s\u00e5 her er det viktig at kommunikasjonen er god. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-dark-gray-color has-text-color\">Hvis dere lytter til hverandre, er det en viss risiko for at dere blir overrasket. Det er nemlig ikke sikkert at han liker det hun tror han liker. Og motsatt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-dark-gray-color has-text-color\">Veiledende kommentarer er bedre enn kritikk. &laquo;Pr\u00f8v litt mer forsiktig&raquo; er bedre enn &laquo;Det gj\u00f8r vondt&raquo;. Det siste du vil er at din kj\u00e6re skal bli usikker p\u00e5 egen prestasjon hvis du egentlig bare har litt ubehag. Selvsagt, er det vondt, stopp henne!<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-medium\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Halvsirkel_vannkran-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-136812\" srcset=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Halvsirkel_vannkran-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Halvsirkel_vannkran-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Halvsirkel_vannkran.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 85vw, 300px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Hygiene<\/strong><\/h6>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-dark-gray-color has-text-color\">S\u00f8rg for at hendene dine er myke og rene f\u00f8r de g\u00e5r l\u00f8s p\u00e5 mannens p\u00e5le. Klipp neglene slik at de ikke har noen skarpe kanter og han ikke f\u00e5r en vond opplevelse.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-medium\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Halvsirkel_fotspor-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-136792\" srcset=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Halvsirkel_fotspor-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Halvsirkel_fotspor-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Halvsirkel_fotspor.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 85vw, 300px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Sm\u00e5 steg<\/strong><\/h6>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-dark-gray-color has-text-color\">Det finnes mange tips og teknikker og det kan virke veldig overveldende. Velg ut noen f\u00e5 teknikker per gang. P\u00e5 den m\u00e5ten slipper dere \u00e5 bli overveldet eller glemme det du hadde tenkt deg \u00e5 pr\u00f8ve. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-dark-gray-color has-text-color\">Og glem ikke de gode gamle teknikkene dine i gleden over \u00e5 l\u00e6re nye.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right\"><em>Fortsett til <a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=504\">Del 2: Oppbygging<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);color:#8224e3\" class=\"has-inline-color\">\u2022 \u2022 \u2022 \u2022<\/mark> \ud83d\udc9c <mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);color:#8224e3\" class=\"has-inline-color\">\u2022 \u2022 \u2022 \u2022<\/mark><\/p>\n\n\n\n<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=613\"><div class=\"min_medium_boks lilla\">Intro<\/div> <\/a>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=502\"><div class=\"min_boks hvit\">1<\/div> <\/a>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=504\"><div class=\"min_boks lilla\">2<\/div> <\/a>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=517\"><div class=\"min_boks lilla\">3<\/div> <\/a> \n<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=566\"><div class=\"min_boks lilla\">4<\/div> <\/a> \n<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=578\"><div class=\"min_boks lilla\">5<\/div> <\/a>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=615\"><div class=\"min_boks lilla\">6<\/div> <\/a> \n<br>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>En kvinneh\u00e5nd som vet \u00e5 behandle mannens p\u00e5le, kan finne p\u00e5 mye g\u00f8y som styrker b\u00e5ndet mellom dem.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4689,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"yasr_overall_rating":0,"yasr_post_is_review":"","yasr_auto_insert_disabled":"","yasr_review_type":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[84,96,6],"tags":[100,97,99,70,98,93,90],"class_list":["post-502","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-guide","category-handkos","category-tips","tag-forutsetninger","tag-handkos","tag-kommunikasjon","tag-mann","tag-palen","tag-sma-steg","tag-tvang"],"yasr_visitor_votes":{"stars_attributes":{"read_only":false,"span_bottom":false},"number_of_votes":0,"sum_votes":0},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/502","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=502"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/502\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":136854,"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/502\/revisions\/136854"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/4689"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=502"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=502"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=502"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}