{"id":840,"date":"2020-04-14T08:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-04-14T06:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=840"},"modified":"2020-08-17T19:56:03","modified_gmt":"2020-08-17T17:56:03","slug":"hva-gjor-kjaerester","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/?p=840","title":{"rendered":"Hva gj\u00f8r kj\u00e6rester?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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De siste dagene har vi kost masse. Men siden vi har valgt s\u00f8libat<\/a>, har vi droppet \u201cavslutningen\u201d. Han har holdt seg unna mine sentrale omr\u00e5der. Jeg har ikke v\u00e6rt like hensynsfull.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kosen har v\u00e6rt herlig. Helt uten press. Jeg har v\u00e6rt tilstede. Helt tilstede og helt med. Hver ber\u00f8ring har v\u00e6rt s\u00e5 n\u00e6r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

Men s\u00e5 begynner vi \u00e5 lure litt. Det er lenge siden vi var bare kj\u00e6rester. Barna p\u00e5st\u00e5r riktignok at vi er kj\u00e6rester fortsatt. Men n\u00e5 er vi deltids kj\u00e6rester med barn, jobb og forpliktelser. Dengang var vi heltids kj\u00e6rester. Og s\u00e5 studerte vi ved siden av.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00e5r man jobber deltid, l\u00e6rer man \u00e5 prioritere vekk det uvesentlige og prioritere det vesentlige.  Vi har prioritert sex og prioritert vekk mye av resten. Siden vi har valgt s\u00f8libat, har vi oppdaget at lite st\u00e5r igjen. Vi har glemt \u00e5 v\u00e6re kj\u00e6rester.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u00e5 kan dere hjelpe oss?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hva er det som gj\u00f8r kj\u00e6rester til kj\u00e6rester?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Innlegget ble f\u00f8rst publisert p\u00e5 Fioljentas blogg «Kristen sex?»<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2022 \u2022 \u2022 \u2022 \u2022<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Forrige glimt:
Om \u00e5 v\u00e5kne med lyst i s\u00f8libat<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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Neste glimt:
Ufrivillig s\u00f8libat<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

\u2022 \u2022 \u2022 \u2022<\/mark> \ud83d\udc9c \u2022 \u2022 \u2022 \u2022<\/mark><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

De siste dagene har vi kost masse. Men siden vi har valgt s\u00f8libat, har vi droppet \u201cavslutningen\u201d. Han har holdt seg unna mine sentrale omr\u00e5der. Jeg har ikke v\u00e6rt like hensynsfull. Kosen har v\u00e6rt herlig. Helt uten press. Jeg har v\u00e6rt tilstede. Helt tilstede og helt med. Hver ber\u00f8ring har v\u00e6rt s\u00e5 n\u00e6r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1275,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"yasr_overall_rating":0,"yasr_post_is_review":"","yasr_auto_insert_disabled":"","yasr_review_type":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[82,5,279],"tags":[153],"class_list":["post-840","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-datekveld","category-glimt","category-kristen_sex","tag-kjaerester"],"yasr_visitor_votes":{"stars_attributes":{"read_only":false,"span_bottom":false},"number_of_votes":0,"sum_votes":0},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/840","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=840"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/840\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8350,"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/840\/revisions\/8350"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1275"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=840"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=840"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fiolsex.net\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=840"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}